Wish wisely, Or better yet, Don’t wish at all!

Do you recall how frustrated I have been about married men who seem to be drawn to me everywhere I go, when all I want is to be in a normal relationship with a guy who is available and free? Well, I just realized why that may be the case. I remember a long time ago, the ignorant 13 year old me who did not know anything about love or dating, used to blurt out things like, ” How nice would it be to be the second wife to someone! You don’t have to cook for them on a daily basis or wash their clothes, you are pretty much only seeing them once in a while and you get to enjoy the rest of your time alone, doing pretty much everything you want freely without the responsibility of another person weighing on your shoulders.” For those who don’t know what I am talking about here, Muslims in our community are allowed to marry as many as four wives at one single time. While this is no picnic for the second, third and fourth wife, women still find themselves stuck in these multi-party relationships which don’t make them happy at all! So why in the hell would I be wishing for something like that? All I can say is, at the time, I didn’t know any better. However, the universe does not filter out anything you say and believe. With enough consistency of thought and belief, the universe will make sure you get what you say you want, eventually.

You can imagine my utter shock in finding out that I am the master mind behind my own heartbreaks from these overly complicated relationships where I was the infamous mistress. I am not proud of what I put myself through and perhaps this will be the best lesson of the new year for me. I need to start saying and wishing only wonderful things. I cannot emphasize the importance of self-prophecy in your life. Please be mindful of what you put out to the universe in terms of your thoughts, beliefs and wishes. They will definitely come true if not today, tomorrow when you have forgotten about them and have outgrown them. I have obviously outgrown most of what my ignorant young self used to believe back then, but that does not mean the universe will drastically make a prompt shift to accommodate my new set of beliefs. The universe is made up of chain reactions which have had years of input getting into shape. It takes just as much effort and time to unwind what you have built over time. So, I advise you and myself moving forward, let us only wish for things which serve our highest good. And like I say, sometimes the current us does not know what that is, so before we end up wishing for stuff which would bring us only misery in the future, let us surrender to the universe to bring to us what we desire or better than that. The universe knows and we don’t, mostly. So why not stop wishing and just generally pray that whatever situation we find ourselves in brings us happiness and fulfilment? Why don’t we just say to the universe, “I know good things are coming my way in this very moment. I surrender to you my desires of this and that(mention your wants and needs) but I know that you know what brings me joy and what will be for my highest good overall. Therefore, I trust that whatever you will bring my way will be for my highest good and nothing less than that. If anything I wish and pray to have is not good for me, I trust that you will protect me from getting it and instead send my way what is better for me. Thank you.”

And that my good people, is how we wish from now on!

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